Polygamy/divorce/separation should not be an option after kids. Its just not fair.
If you do not forsee an amiable way of fixing things in the future (which you should plan before youget married), then don't get married.
There are so many people and things that get destroyed when a marriage packs up. You mess up your children's life, you create unnecesary issues with the familes and so on.
I would have been married last week.
Both our parents are separated.
I am not married.
See!
If you are not sure of being with the same person you want to marry 10 years down the line (which takes effort), or are not sure of living together in peace, then dont fucking get married!
Shikena.
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Toluwa.
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Toluwa i need some expansion on this story o...you would have been married last week?
Yes oh. I would have been. The wahala of parents who dont see eye to eye did not allow for an agreement. and the already picked date got chaged...story for another day dear!
Oh boy!!!!!
I think it is stuff like this that my mum meant when she said she wasnt leaving the marriage.....*shrug*
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