Just...Toluwa

He loves God. and that takes the gold!

I can hold a conversation with him, need him to keep my brain cells alive.

He needs to tickle my fancy. am playful and just because am 2* years old doesn't mean i still can't have fun. *clean fun too* He need not act like a 10yr old, but a lil fun wouldn't be so bad.

I love to laugh and want to laugh, so, a good and active sense of humor he should possess.

I could be "OPINIONATED", so, he needs to be able to hold his ground with me. I want to repect him so i would not argue much with him or bark him down. Yet, he needs to understand my headstrong attitude and let some things lie.

My equal but somewhat 'my lord' if you get my drift.

Now, let's be a little shallow; looks matter and he must know how to dress on point and look good.

Definitely smart!

Appreciative of the little things and the big things. Knows when to hold on and when to let go.

Would be awesome if i he could finish my sentences. Kinda cliche, but who says it can't happen. I mean, we could know each other so well, that we know our thoughts. Ok, maybe this happens after we've known a lot about each other. Gosh am so helpless when it comes to emotions.

Well, i guess thats it. Oh no..one more thing! He better love me. And love me real good.

Check out this link...

At first i thot it was funny, but then again not hilarious! Then a petition began, and i thought...are they for real? who is gonna listen to them?...well watch this

Sony Commercial

Well, then my cousin sent me this, and i had a slight change of heart! Pls read...


With every day that passes I am frustrated and shamed by how Nigeria is constantly being depicted in a bad light, the result of years of corruption and in the more recent years CNN and other networks’ coverage of Nigerians’ credit card and Fraud schemes over the internet.

During conversations with friends, we joke about how we no longer want to be associated with this shameful country, how we would much rather associate ourselves with other countries such as America and England . But as I sit here today I realize that this matter is not one to laugh about.

Our citizens are being treated poorly all over the world and we are a people of ridicule. It seems our leaders do not see this nor care as they do nothing to change the situation or even make an attempt to improve Nigeria ’s image. Instead, satisfying themselves with stealing the spoils of the land

So does this mean the situation is hopeless? Does this mean there is nothing I can do as an individual but get on my knees and pray for God to touch this once great country? Even the bible says that faith without works is dead. But what can someone like me with little influence do to have a positive effect and be an agent of change especially since I migrated to the states at the age of 17 several years ago.

Well I believe I can counteract this negative image by created a positive one of my own. Instead of merely folding my arms and making light banter about the situation Nigeria is in I can strive hard to be an individual of good repute in my chosen profession or career and should God grant me the grace of becoming well known in the future, I will stand up tall and announce to every soul that I meet that I am proudly of Nigerian birth and I am an example of the good that can come out of this once great nation-Nigeria.

I can counteract the negative image Nigeria has today by being a patriot, by daily reminding myself of the many wonderful elements that make Nigeria what it is- a country of such great resources, blessed with diverse tribes, a rich history and cultural heritage, and proclaiming to every Nigerian I meet that Nigeria is a country worth our love and patriotism.

Why have we forgotten? Why do you cower in shame and tell ourselves we deserve the scorn of the nations because of the few corrupt that tarnish our image? It is not the corrupt leaders of Nigeria’s past and present alone who have let our great country down, neither is it the young morally bankrupt internet scammers and fraudsters.

It is every citizen of Nigeria who has refused to stand up in outrage against the continued corruption, every Nigerian who has allowed foreigners mispronounce our names or even spelled our own names incorrectly in the name of conformity, every one of us who has in our hearts given up hope and the desire to create a better future. Indeed, we are all guilty of failing our great country.

Let us repent from our neglect. Let us all strive to be great citizens of our country in our respective professions. Let us all remember our heritage and love our country with all our souls and minds. Never forget that God created you a Nigerian for a reason. BE A PROUD NIGERIAN.

by Loretta Bolanle Boglo

She does have a point!

So i lost 6 pounds in two weeks doing this almost everyday. On the days i dont dance, i go to the gym or at least do a couple of sit ups. This along side not dieting, but minimizing the portion of food i eat. I still eat my fat full meals and still love my fat full milk, but i eat them in small portions and i eat every 3hrs to keep my metabolism going. Am dancing to a naija song which most naija ppl shld know...Ori e fokasibe...pls fell free to yab me or laff! dts wat its for!

This is just three minutes and a sample of wat i do. I actually dance for abt an hr to an hr and a half.

Its been hard but fun!

I suggest that all the weight watcher should try doing sumtin they find fun and do it. I know nt every one has the time, but 10mins a day is also cool! So all my grumbling was nt for nothing o!

peace!

Okay so i know its been a while since i been on here! But who has seen koko mansion? oh my gosh, i feel like going on a rant about the stupid show.

First of all, the show has no plot. Seriously!

no drama.

If its meant to be a reality show, shouldnt there be some kind of action in the damn show. Why are we watching a bunch of girls just chilling and acting ghetto!

Rita! gosh! dt girl is on a different level. Didnt someone say she was a english major? Damn, for an english major student, she sure as hell destroys the language.

Why would Dbanj still go ahead with the stupid show if all the girls that auditioned were ghetto. And why arent there tush girls on der? Dont they want 5mil naira and a diamond ring and dont dey want to tour with Dbanj...

I guess not. Just goes to show most beautiful girls in naija got brains to go with it. Obviously no girl with brains wants to spend valuable time doing nothing and acting a fool on tv. Forget the girls, lets go back to the plot.. Its meant to show what a wifee shld be, or what qualities a wifee should have...! right! sure! uhuh!

If the idea is to get a girl with brains and values who could help Dbanj on his tour (and when i say help, i mean help and not HELP *wink* if u know wat i mean) why is Rita still in the house.

I thought the tasks would be more mind challenging and knowledgeable. Why the hell are they dancing to Gbona feli feli, instead of them creating model plans for a dbanj show, or showing what supporting Dbanj means. abi is dt what a good naija wife should know? How to dance? like dts gonna put food in his tummy! This is bull o and i am dissappointed

Okay, so maybe i see it differently because i watch it on you tube and not on naija TV, and so i dont get to see the whole show.

As much as i hated flava flav, apart from the ass showing and bitch fights, the tasks made sense. Someone needs to help Naija tv. A lot of ppl have dish in naija cos naija tv isnt attracting, except the news anyways and if this is supposed to bring viewers to naija channels...then they have it wrong..or maybe i am wrong. Maybe Naija ppl wanna c people like Rita! Gosh she is ghetto..i cant get over her argument on Yahoo boys in yankee...click here abeg

So please defend this show o before i loose my luff for Dbanj..i thot he would go for better. Abeg, there are a lot better chics in naija...or am i wrong. Chicas, answer now!

Peace, for the people who have gone
Yepa, for the ones not yet born
Woe, for the people who are here
Yee, for the people

Runaway,
Runaway,
Runaway,
Were ja si gbo!

Song kinda applies to blogsville as a whole and life in generl..lol!

I aint a runaway blogger as DannyB has called me o! I love this fam tew mush to just dissappear lyk that, but i have to admit that after a while i got tired of reading and updating. I now understand why people quit blogging. Its a job on its own. And since my own job aint giving me tym to blog, i opted for the job that pays my bills.

Anywho, to clarify my last post, i wish all those guys were asking me out at the same time. But no. The list was over a loooonnngggg period of tym. Right now, "oja mi ti lole" -my market has gone down - like one my friends would say.

Studying for the GMAT sucks!

Almost enlisted in the military! The army specifically! But then i though about how my mom would have a heart attack! gosh i miss her!

Well, am gonna try to catch up on all the bloggers av missed!

ps...only a few ppl checked up on me...i c u guys! i c how much u luff me!*